Oh hon, I'm still reeling from the abhorrent idea that someone can be stigmatized by sleeping with trans person.
That somehow it importunes your own sexuality???? So this means you do NOT have it within you to honour and validate another individual's identity, and therefore you have been 'tricked' into sleeping with someone you now consider to be the same sex as you, then you are also homophobic, which means that you've suddenly done something GAY, threatened your own identity, questioned your own validity as human being and your emotional scars no doubt come from your own fucked up-ness going PHOOM!
I mean I knew I knew this. But it just doesn't square in my head, it's so illogical. And I simply don't want the massive PARADIGM SHIFT it would take to even get close to understanding how someone can deny another's identity in order to embrace victim-hood.
However, the thing I WISH beyond all wishing is how to instigate the human thinking and feeling paradigm shift in another person without resorting to violence.
Sorry I got all ranty - I knew it was a rhetorical question really, stuff just came out.
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That somehow it importunes your own sexuality???? So this means you do NOT have it within you to honour and validate another individual's identity, and therefore you have been 'tricked' into sleeping with someone you now consider to be the same sex as you, then you are also homophobic, which means that you've suddenly done something GAY, threatened your own identity, questioned your own validity as human being and your emotional scars no doubt come from your own fucked up-ness going PHOOM!
I mean I knew I knew this. But it just doesn't square in my head, it's so illogical. And I simply don't want the massive PARADIGM SHIFT it would take to even get close to understanding how someone can deny another's identity in order to embrace victim-hood.
However, the thing I WISH beyond all wishing is how to instigate the human thinking and feeling paradigm shift in another person without resorting to violence.
Sorry I got all ranty - I knew it was a rhetorical question really, stuff just came out.